DH and I were meant to be. Match made in heaven. Made for each other - you get the drift...
Think about it. If he had married some perfectly fertile woman with a perfectly functional hormonal and reproductive system with a pretty uterus, she would have been really pissed (ok, unhappy) because she'd have to deal with the translocation issue and suffer through it.
If I had married a perfectly reproductive man, with good looking chromosomes and functional ducts and everything, he would be pissed, because my uterus is the way it is.
We have spared possibly one normal fertile woman, and one normal fertile man the anguish of infertility!
And this is not the only reason I'm happy to be married to him :-)
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That's a good way to look at it! :)
You are 100% right! You're even-steven.
I think I live in a parallel universe. Let me explain: DH and I have "unexplained infertility." So after reading your note I thought, since there is NO WAY for either of us to point a finger at the other in any direct way, we're even. We're two deers in the headlights. LOL!
Man, does this stuff suck. :)
That's a different way to look at it. Almost funny...but not really.
Silver lining?
I'm not sure why, but this makes me think of a passage from the Bible in Corinthians (not sure if C1 or C2) about Love. (I can't remember all of it so I won't try to quote it.)
Love can do amazing things and get us through so much. It seems obvious to me that you two have this kind of love for each other.
That's the glass half full for you!! Very cute.
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